Mr. and Mrs. Haines

Mr. and Mrs. Haines

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Update

Well I finally had a whole day off. I got a whole lot done. I cleaned my apt which i haven't had much time to clean. Did some laundry; among other things. it never seems to end.





Do you remember those old floppy disks? Well I've been going thro some boxes of mine and found some so I spent about an hour or so at the local library to get rid of what i didn't need. It was interesting to see how i perceived the world as a kid/teen.  I started working on my christmas list and getting together some xmas gifts. This year is going to be a tight one. I cleaned my car, which was worse than my apt and realized that dad's shopvac is not as powerful as it once was. I cooked lunch and made extra's for later. I love making plenty of extra's. Lately I've been making hash brown casserole and freezing it. I'll have to put the recipe up on the other blog.  On other news Collin finally bought a car. A 1987 Toyota Camrey. He got it registered and everything and is loving his new found independence. It's been 2 years since he owned his own car. He has been loving his new job and is looking forward to Headless Horseman to be over. On the weekends, he works at a local but famous halloween attraction. http://www.headlesshorseman.com/

Halloween is his fav holiday. I'm looking more forward to Christmas. 

headless horseman hayrides & haunted houses   

I got a lot more coming up in the next few weeks. I'm dealing with the fact that my insurance is running out at the end of the year. My jobs can't insure me due to several reasons. Not to mention I can't afford much. So i've been making appointments to get all my doctors before i'm not covered. I got an auction to attend and auction some stuff off including one my own prints for the women's group my mom is a part of that i also joined, PEO. Dad's birthday and then Thanksgiving. It's going to be a busy month! Can't wait... 

Words of Wisdom

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
 
8. It's OK to get angry with God.. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

25. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?".

26. Always choose life.

27. Forgive everyone everything.

28. What other people think of you is none of your business.

29. Time heals almost everything.. Give time, time.

30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

31. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

32. Believe in miracles.

33. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

34. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

35. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

36. Your children get only one childhood.

37. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

38.Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

39. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

40. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

41. The best is yet to come.

42. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

43. Yield.

44. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

Friday, October 9, 2009

nothing exciting

Well i guess some of you have been wondering where i've been... Basically all i've been doing is working. i work 7 days a week.. if it's not one job it's the other or both... it's been really hard with the economy ... my boyfriend, Collin, finally got a job. he did get a job working for this one place but they had to let him go only have a week... But he got a job a local appliance store delivering and such.... It seems to be working out ok... He's working on getting a car and I can't wait. i'm glad to finally be getting our crap in order. But other than that I dont have a whole lot else to update on cause i dont have a life... My parents are calling it quits.. Collin also works at Headless Horesman which is a halloween attraction... he loves it. halloween is his favorite holiday. i'm glad he has something that makes him happy and make money.. So this is my boring life. just trying to get my feet upright and back on firm ground...